it has always puzzled me how humans seem to want what they cant have.
when things are boring, you want change. but when things change, you crave the normal feeling of old routine.
when you are blazing hot in the middle of summer, you wish you were in the coldest part of the world. but in the middle of the frosty winter, you wish you were warm again.
i wonder, how does this work? are people not meant to be happy, or is there some hidden secret behind how to get past this unsatisfying feeling?